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College Matters: Finding strength in our humanity

This article was originally posted in the College Matters column of the Times-Standard.

Thursday, March 19, 2020 - 8:50pm

Where the redwoods whisper and the ocean roars, there is Humboldt, an amazing place with special people.

Last week someone made a comment, and it brought a smile to everyone around them because it caused us to wonder and to reflect. It seemed innocent on the surface but it also served as a reminder of how much we have changed in such a short time.

The question: “What did we do before COVID-19?”

We have certainly had to make difficult changes in our daily life. We Zoom. We awkwardly walk past each other. We wonder. Still, it is important to remember that our humanity, our compassion, our strength as a community, and our souls can guide us daily.

For each of us there can be many joys throughout the day. When I reflect upon my role as a father, walking with my children was magical. It was a joy holding them in my arms, laughing with them, smiling and sharing moments with them, and trying different foods or experiences with them. When I think of our lives socially, I remember those moments sharing a meal, participating in a sport or activity, or finding a seat in a full arena to watch something musical, artistic, or athletic. Those were special memories that helped to deepen friendships. One of my favorite memories was sharing a moment with my best friend at a national championship collegiate basketball game. Our team won and it was amazing. We were high-fiving and hugging anyone and everyone.

When I was younger, Princess Diana provided an example that taught me a wonderful lesson. That was the importance of caring. The importance of touch. The importance of respect. The importance of supporting others where we can. Her willingness and ability to go to communities and hug a child, support a cause, or offer her compassion to an ailing person set a standard that has stayed with me for life.

Before COVID-19, there was a time we freely walked up to people and learned from them or asked each other questions. We compassionately helped one another, or offered a gentle tap on a shoulder to show our human connection. We are asked today to limit much of this basic human connection. Just the other day, I approached a colleague and observed them back up as if I had a cold or the measles. What they were doing was practicing “social distancing” — as they should. But I was still in my world of social engagement. It was a strong reminder of how behaviors are changing.

COVID-19 has forced us to make many temporary changes. And in the coming months we will be asked to change even more.

There are many moments of uncertainty in our days addressing this pandemic. There also remains many moments of our core — a conversation with our aging parents, sharing moments with friends however possible, and loving our children. Let’s also remember that this is the time we help each other, show compassion, smile and say “hello” to each other, and do our part for our community.

Where the Redwoods whisper and the ocean roars, there is Humboldt, an amazing place with special people. Be well.

Dr. Tom Jackson Jr. is the president of Humboldt State University.